10 Apr 2016

5 Tips to Avoid Back Ache as a Parent

Like quite a few mothers I know, I too have had trouble with a bad back that seems to be related to parenthood.

I was lucky in that I was not bothered at all by any sort of back ache throughout my pregnancy except towards the very end. Labour pains, contrary to all popular belief, can completely circumvent the abdomen and stay entirely limited to the lower back.

None of the many pregnancy books I read, classes I attended, nor the internet in all its wisdom, had warned me about this. I found out entirely by accident, having put the back ache and the upset stomach to a giant pizza I had eaten the night before. Turns out, I was twelve hours into labour with my first and only child. And if it weren’t for the timely intervention of an experienced friend, I would have ended up giving birth in my front room.

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The next time I suffered from a bad back was when my little baby was growing bigger and stronger and we had to move the mattress in his cot bed right to the bottom to stop him climbing out. This meant I had to lean all the way over and lift him right the way up each time. J was a chunky little thing, so this was by no means an easy feat. Result – back ache.

It took me a while to figure out a strategy to help me with my sore back. I am sharing it with you in the hope it will help some of you. This is based on my experience alone and not meant to replace any advice given by a medical professional.

Here are my 5 tips to help with back ache as a parent:

Support your back

Whether you are sat in a chair watching television or breastfeeding, make sure your back is well supported. Use all the cushions in the house if you have to. Avoid those deep, comfy sofas that engulf and suck you in. They do feel rather lush, but do nothing to support your back.

Strengthen your core

Suck those tummy muscles in every time you get the chance. Not only will it help build a strong core, you may even regain your gorgeous pre-pregnancy flat belly sooner than expected. A strong core is important if you are trying to avoid back pain.

Watch your posture

They teach you all about load handling when you take up a new job. But nobody ever talks about the right way to lift that precious bundle of joy that is your baby. Try and ensure your weight is evenly distributed through both your legs when you are carrying your baby. Engage those core muscles when lifting baby up from ground level and bend through your knees and hips rather than through your back.

Carrying your little one

Switch between a one-sided hip carry, a piggy-back carry or a more traditional in-your-arms carry option depending on how old your child is. Make sure they have their arms and feet wrapped around you, so that their weight is evenly distributed. Plus it makes for great cuddles!

Sleep well

Your bed has to be of a good height so you are not stooping to get in and struggling to get out of it. We had a very low bed when I was a new mum and it was a nightmare getting out of it, which was every couple of hours when you are breastfeeding a newborn baby. It wasn’t long before we made the switch to a high divan bed and it made such a difference to my poor back.

Also, the mattress has to be right for you in terms of firmness and yield. Go for something that offers good support and adapts to the contours of your back. If you have a preference for sleeping on your back or on your side, make sure the mattress you choose is comfortable for your sleeping style.


These are my tips to avoid back pain. Is it something you have experienced after becoming a parent? How did you deal with it?

Disclosure: This is a collaborative post.

16 comments:

  1. I definitely need to improve my core (and I can't even blame pregnancy for that!), and getting a better mattress is high up my list!

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  2. I have a bad back too and sometimes I wake up and it's really hurting. Will try to remember your tips :) Dean of Little Steps.

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  3. I had back ache in both my pregnancies and have the occasional problem. Great advice, we recently brought a new mattress and that really makes a difference x

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  4. I had back ache in both my pregnancies and have the occasional problem. Great advice, we recently brought a new mattress and that really makes a difference x

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  5. I've been quite lucky with back ache but oh-my-goodness, neck ache has been the worst for me!

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  6. It's so important to take care of our backs - damage can be long lasting and you just don't realise it. I had problems with my back after giving birth to my eldest. I found pilates really helpful as it's great for core strengthening.

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  7. I have severe back issues and right now am having shooting pains across my spine and neck. I use all the cushions I can get x

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  8. really good tips here.. i used to work in a baby and toddler room in a nursery and i had to watch my back all the time.. the carrying tip is an important one

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  9. This is such a great tips for avoiding pains for the back. Even thought I'm not a parent myself its still a great advice.

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  10. I had back ache for the first time after N was born. Having had a cs and then bending over the bed to change him caused it. Thankfully once I started kneeling down and changing him on the floor it improved and I've never had problems since.

    For me it's all about exercise and core strength. Have that (I don't have anymore thanks to the cs), and you'll likely not have problems.

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  11. I will be taking these tips on board. I suffer with back ache sometimes so these tips are great

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  12. Thanks for sharing these tips to avoid backache. Will definitely suggest these tips to my friend who is expecting. She is getting acupuncture therapy from a professional acupuncture-mississauga clinic to avoid pregnancy complications.

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  13. I went on a moving and handling course when I worked in social care and one of the things we were told was that parents with young children were the people who suffered most from bad backs. I can so vouch for that as having two toddlers has really made my back and hips ache, from pregnancy, bending to change them and carrying them around. Great tips xx

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  14. Hi thanks for sharing these munch of information about relieve back pain. I've tried a lot of different things for my back pain, and so far there are a few things that have helped me the most; diet and light exercises are huge! You'd be amazed how much better eating a little healthier has made my back feel.

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  15. I think strengthening the core and paying attention to correct posture are the most important actionable tips. For core do some PT recommended crunches and for posture keep straight and if need extra support use high quality posture braces or bands

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